Add ability for consumers to customize command usage, better UX

[kalverra]

Now consuming packages can use, e.g.:

testrig.WithRootCommand("make test"),
testrig.WithHelpCommandFormatter(func(args string) string {
	return fmt.Sprintf("make test ARGS=%q", args)
}),

to customize their help outputs a little bit.

[github-actions]

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