monero: bump OpenSSL dep and remove unused defs

[jeffro256]

• OpenSSL 1.1.1 has had a lot of security patches since 1.1.1g
• BOOST_ROOT and OPENSSL_ROOT_DIR don't do anything here
• Instead of patching the CMakeLists file (which didn't work), simply set USE_COMPILER_CACHE=OFF
• -fPIC is the default in Monero already
• BOOST_NO_INCLASS_MEMBER_INITIALIZATION isn't needed for compilation AFAICT

SHA256 sum for 1.1.1w can be cross-referenced here: https://mta.openssl.org/pipermail/openssl-announce/2023-September/000274.html

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[jeffro256]

Is there a method of transmitting my consent for my intellectual property to used in this project, which the mainters will accept, and which doesn't require me making an account at a spyware company?