feat: mesh connectivity reconstruction internals

[HenningScheufler]

Adds face topology, cell reconstruction, node reordering, and VTK cell extraction algorithms. Hash-map dedup runs on host and results are copied to the executor. No IO format dependency — pure algorithmic layer.

Guarded by NeoN_WITH_VTK; links VTK modules required for type definitions.

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