CRASM-3710: Fix User Pending Bug - Prod

[aloftus23]

🗣 Description

Fixes users staying in the pending registration queue after a successful approve, including when org assignment already exists in the DB or register/approve was already completed.

Backend: add_user_to_org_v2 is idempotent (returns existing role on duplicate; IntegrityError fallback).
Frontend (RegionUsers.tsx): “Already approved” path completes org + invite_pending cleanup; 30s refresh of pending/member tables (paused during dialogs / hidden tab).

💭 Motivation and context

Prod logs showed: register/approve succeeding, then POST /v2/organizations/{id}/users returning 500 (duplicate role_user_id_organization_id), so update_user with invite_pending: false never ran. The UI could also treat “already approved” as done and remove the row without clearing pending. Stale pending rows (roles: [] after Manage Users) made the frontend retry org add and hit that 500.

🧪 Testing

Created backend and frontend unit tests.

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