refresh server member lists after profile updates

[saurabhhhcodes]

Summary

• Emit server_updated for every server the user belongs to after a profile edit
• This refreshes active server member lists when username or avatar changes
• The server already propagates the updated identity in MongoDB, so the missing piece was the realtime refresh event

Validation

• git diff --check
• node --check server/src/routes/profile.js

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