Update apache/hive Docker tag to v4.2.0

[MonkeyCanCode]

This PR fixes #4333. There were 3 issues identified last time when I checked this:

1. the base image for hive change (changed from Debian to RedHat and the install curl is no longer valid also not needed as RedHat image has those pre-packaged)
  - this got resolved by https://github.com/apache/polaris/pull/4361/changes
2. Iceberg 1.10.0 doesn't yet support Hive 4.2.0 (it will be in 1.11.0)
  - this got resolved by https://github.com/apache/polaris/pull/4491 
3. We will need to bump HMS version as well
  - this was attempted to be fixed by https://github.com/apache/polaris/pull/3726 but later got reverted via https://github.com/apache/polaris/pull/3741 due to the above issues

Now as Iceberg 1.11.0 is in and custom docker image got fixed, we are ready for hive/hms 4.2.0.

Checklist

• 🛡️ Don't disclose security issues! (contact security@apache.org)
• 🔗 Clearly explained why the changes are needed, or linked related issues: Fixes #
• 🧪 Added/updated tests with good coverage, or manually tested (and explained how)
• 💡 Added comments for complex logic
• 🧾 Updated CHANGELOG.md (if needed)
• 📚 Updated documentation in site/content/in-dev/unreleased (if needed)

[MonkeyCanCode]

Seem likes it is still not yet fixed on iceberg: https://github.com/apache/iceberg/blob/main/hive-metastore/src/main/java/org/apache/iceberg/hive/HiveCatalog.java#L113

Will close this for now.