Align key ordering between formats, retain iteration order

[akaIDIOT]

Fixes #140

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Comparing median (lower is better) metric of benchmarks between this PR's target (c63a610) and the HEAD of this PR (7889e95):

	3.10	3.11	3.12	3.13	3.14	PyPy 3.10	PyPy 3.11
test_benchmark_get	-0%	-0%	+1%	-2%	-1%	+1%	-1%
test_benchmark_get_dotted	-0%	-1%	-1%	+0%	-0%	+2%	-1%
test_benchmark_getattr	-1%	-0%	-0%	-2%	-2%	+1%	-2%
test_benchmark_getitem	+1%	+1%	+2%	+0%	-1%	+1%	-2%
test_benchmark_getitem_dotted	-2%	+0%	-2%	+2%	-1%	-1%	+1%
test_benchmark_init_full_overlap	-1%	+3%	+0%	-2%	+0%	-1%	+1%
test_benchmark_init_no_overlap	-2%	+4%	+0%	-2%	+0%	-1%	+0%
test_benchmark_init_partial_overlap	-2%	+6%	+0%	-3%	+0%	-0%	+0%
test_benchmark_reference_chain	-1%	+2%	-0%	+1%	-3%	-1%	-2%
test_benchmark_splat_args	+4%	+2%	-1%	+1%	+0%	+0%	+2%
test_benchmark_spread_kwargs	-0%	+4%	-1%	+2%	-3%	-2%	+1%

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