Update to ArborX 2.0

[aprokop]

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[dalg24]

Doesn't arborx 2.0 require Kokkos 4.5?

[aprokop]

You are right. I switched Kokkos versions.

[aprokop]

Rebased on current master.

[aprokop]

One job failed for seemingly unrelated reasons:

/github/home/heffte/include/stock_fft/heffte_stock_allocator.h:41:70: error: 'const_pointer' in 'class std::allocator<void>' does not name a type
   41 |         pointer allocate(size_type n, typename std::allocator<void>::const_pointer = nullptr) {
...
/github/home/ALL/include/ALL_Point.hpp:116:3: error: template-id not allowed for destructor
  116 |   ~Point<T>(){};
      |   ^

However, it seems to fail only in this PR. I'm confused.