Add canUpdate, and canDelete to records

[jacebenson]

So when you want to

• update a record, do a read, and as part of the read, return if you canUpdate boolean for the logged in user.
• delete a record, do a read, and as part of the read, return if you canDelete boolean for the logged in user.

so canUpdaet, and canDelete would be non-real fields on the model/table, that take in some code like, xyz role can see the record, and maybe xyz user is the logged in user

[jacebenson]

Really this should be done on every record, so the form's can also respect this.
Imagine a readmany on user, and you can edit your use but no one else.