Force filter correctly

See comment made here about improvement:
https://github.com/bitwave-tv/bitwave/commit/724c4ab5a49a6bb7edd60a3188df6d78d6694419#r44640287

Change:

```js
this.messages = this.messages?.filter( message => !m.ids.includes( message._id) ) ;
```

to something like:

```js
this.executeAction({ forceFilter: m => m.ids.includes( message._if ) });
```

per comment.